In short no. I’m younger (in my 30s) and like to think I don’t conform to all the stereotypes of a funeral celebrant. While I have several black suits (and more than happy to wear these), I will dress appropriately for the ceremony that you are planning.

Yes - absolutely! I’m gay myself, so take huge pride in looking after fellow members of my community and allies alike.

No, there is no legal obligation to use a celebrant for your service. Celebrants are professionals who specialise in creating meaningful ceremonies, are well practiced public speakers and are skilled at navigating emotional, complex and ambiguous situations. While you do not need to use a celebrant, having a professional guide you through the planning process is incredibly useful. Think of us as the glue, that can pull and hold everything together.

I will do whatever is best for you, your family and loved one. If that means a small group of us in shorts and t-shirts, perfect! The day is about you.

Yes of course. Your funeral home will show you a small selection of very experienced celebrants that they have worked with in the past, but this doesn’t mean you are restricted to using them – you can have whoever you want. Feel free to reach out to me directly or ask the funeral home to contact me.

Yes, there are strict rules about where you can and cannot scatter ashes, as well as cultural considerations. It’s best you check with the local council about restrictions and by-laws before planning anything to avoid disappointment.

The gift of faith is something I lost several years ago. While I am not religious myself, I am very comfortable in religious environments and am comfortable reciting prayers and giving readings.

Yes, I’m more than happy to travel to anywhere in the country to support you. Depending on where this is, it may incur additional costs for travel and accommodation (as required). Contact me to discuss this directly.